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Losing It: I Left the Church & Never Looked Back.
Faith ► December 8, 2017

Losing It: I Left the Church & Never Looked Back.

I remember the exact moment I knew I would not be coming back to church. When I reflect on that moment as a woman in her 40s, I am crystal clear on why.

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I’m Sorry, Sis, But Boaz Is Never Coming.
Faith ► November 3, 2017

I’m Sorry, Sis, But Boaz Is Never Coming.

The story of Ruth & Boaz has been sold to Christian women as a model for courtship for years. But is it really what we make it out to be?

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The Price of Purity Culture: Regrets, Faith, & Sexual Ethics
Faith ► September 27, 2017

The Price of Purity Culture: Regrets, Faith, & Sexual Ethics

To The Women I Hurt, I’m Sorry. A year ago this month, I wrote a post that would become a seminal piece in my body of work. Since then, The Cult of Heather Lindsey has been accessed more than 71,000 times. I’ve...

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Can’t We All Just Get Along? The Tensions of Black Queerness, Womanhood, & the Cross
Sexuality ► May 4, 2017

Can’t We All Just Get Along? The Tensions of Black Queerness, Womanhood, & the Cross

Is Black Male Queerness an enemy of Black Women? An Op-Ed on the tensions of Black Gay men, Black women, & their place in the Black church.

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On Angela Simmons & Sex Politics
Sexuality ► May 30, 2016

On Angela Simmons & Sex Politics

How Angela Simmons' unwed pregnancy post-abstinence declaration shines a light on the problems of sexual politics, women, and faith.

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Gender ➤ September 29, 2016

95 Reasons Black Women Are Endangered

#BlackLivesMatter. But why are the lives of Black women killed by police all but erased from the national conversation? 95 reasons we must #SayHerName.

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Church ➤ January 23, 2017

When Blackface Enters the Pulpit: Vicki Yohe, Paula White, & the Problem with the ‘Black Pass’

What happens when we center whiteness in Black sacred spaces? On Vicki Yohe, Paula White, and the art of blackface in the pulpit.

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Beyond Belief ➤ May 16, 2016

Losing It: What Pushes a Mother Away from God?

A candid essay by a wife and mother on how she transitioned from faith in God to a confident, unapologetic agnostic Black woman.

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