Coats, Coverings, & Birthing. John Gray has shared with us yet again more unsolicited advice on getting, marrying, and raising men. I share my thoughts on why women aren’t obligated to do anyone’s emotional labor.
Jasper Williams is only one pastor, but his expressions are painfully familiar for many who have chosen to leave the church. On Black Church Culture, Toxic Theology, and why it takes more than “not all churches” to heal old wounds.
As we wrestle with the bleak reality that our humanity is precarious and subject to the temerity of whiteness within this society, it’s time that we ask: Do Black Lives Matter to God?
Coats, Coverings, & Birthing. John Gray has shared with us yet again more unsolicited advice on getting, marrying, and raising men. I share my thoughts on why women aren't obligated to do anyone's emotional labor.
Singer Ciara, wife of NFL Quarterback Russell Wilson, told women that they need to #LevelUp if they want to be marriage material. On Relationship Theology & normalizing singleness.
I remember the exact moment I knew I would not be coming back to church. When I reflect on that moment as a woman in her 40s, I am crystal clear on why.
To The Women I Hurt, I’m Sorry. A year ago this month, I wrote a post that would become a seminal piece in my body of work. Since then, The Cult of Heather Lindsey has been accessed more than 71,000 times. I’ve had my fair share of both praise and criticism for the piece and its assessments of purity culture. Lindsey herself...