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I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?
Love &. Relationships ► June 12, 2019

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?

I turned 31 on June 1 and found myself single and quite ready to mingle. Eight months after the end of a five-year relationship, I realized I was ready to date and love again. After...

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VIDEO: F**K His Peace, Sis!
Love &. Relationships ► November 28, 2018

VIDEO: F**K His Peace, Sis!

Another Week, Another Meme. This week on Al Gore’s internet has not been one to disappoint. Between flying preachers, Mississippi proving why it continues to come in last, and bitter exes Erica Mena and Bow Wow...

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What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?
Love &. Relationships ► July 28, 2016

What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?

Marriage is not for the faint of heart and love won't be enough to keep the divorce papers away. Still think you want to be married? By Skylar Watson.

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6 Ways to Make the Most of Being Single
Love &. Relationships ► July 5, 2016

6 Ways to Make the Most of Being Single

It's a jungle out here. It's hard to tell these days if #TeamSingle is revered or reviled. 6 ways for thriving while surviving singlehood.

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Why Aren’t You Divorced Yet?
Deconstruction ► June 23, 2016

Why Aren’t You Divorced Yet?

How one person survived emotional abuse while struggling with her religious views on love, marriage, reconciliation, and divorce.

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Hoes Ain’t Won: The Fix
Embodied Faith ► May 23, 2016

Hoes Ain’t Won: The Fix

Side note: The language and situational dialogue of this post is cis-heteronormative. This means it’s primarily focused on what’s normal for cisgender (a person whose gender identity matches the one assigned at birth) and heterosexual...

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