I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?
I turned 31 on June 1 and found myself single and quite ready to mingle. Eight months after the end of a five-year relationship, I realized I was ready to date and love again. After...
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VIDEO: F**K His Peace, Sis!
Another Week, Another Meme. This week on Al Gore’s internet has not been one to disappoint. Between flying preachers, Mississippi proving why it continues to come in last, and bitter exes Erica Mena and Bow Wow...
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VIDEO: John Gray: My Womb Ain’t for Wounds
Coats, Coverings, & Birthing. John Gray has shared with us yet again more unsolicited advice on getting, marrying, and raising men. I share my thoughts on why women aren't obligated to do anyone's emotional labor.
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Ciara, Our Worth Is About More Than Being “Chose”
Singer Ciara, wife of NFL Quarterback Russell Wilson, told women that they need to #LevelUp if they want to be marriage material. On Relationship Theology & normalizing singleness.
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Losing It: I Left the Church & Never Looked Back.
I remember the exact moment I knew I would not be coming back to church. When I reflect on that moment as a woman in her 40s, I am crystal clear on why.
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The Price of Purity Culture: Regrets, Faith, & Sexual Ethics
To The Women I Hurt, I’m Sorry. A year ago this month, I wrote a post that would become a seminal piece in my body of work. Since then, The Cult of Heather Lindsey has been accessed more than 71,000 times. I’ve...
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