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I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?
Love ► June 12, 2019

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?

I turned 31 on June 1 and found myself single and quite ready to mingle. Eight months after the end of a five-year relationship, I realized I was ready to date and love again. After...

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VIDEO: F**K His Peace, Sis!
Love ► November 28, 2018

VIDEO: F**K His Peace, Sis!

Another Week, Another Meme. This week on Al Gore’s internet has not been one to disappoint. Between flying preachers, Mississippi proving why it continues to come in last, and bitter exes Erica Mena and Bow Wow...

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VIDEO: John Gray: My Womb Ain’t for Wounds
Faith ► November 18, 2018

VIDEO: John Gray: My Womb Ain’t for Wounds

Coats, Coverings, & Birthing. John Gray has shared with us yet again more unsolicited advice on getting, marrying, and raising men. I share my thoughts on why women aren't obligated to do anyone's emotional labor.

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Ciara, Our Worth Is About More Than Being “Chose”
In These Streets ► January 22, 2018

Ciara, Our Worth Is About More Than Being “Chose”

Singer Ciara, wife of NFL Quarterback Russell Wilson, told women that they need to #LevelUp if they want to be marriage material. On Relationship Theology & normalizing singleness.

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What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?
Relationships ► July 28, 2016

What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?

Marriage is not for the faint of heart and love won't be enough to keep the divorce papers away. Still think you want to be married? By Skylar Watson.

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Why Aren’t You Divorced Yet?
Relationships ► June 23, 2016

Why Aren’t You Divorced Yet?

How one person survived emotional abuse while struggling with her religious views on love, marriage, reconciliation, and divorce.

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Gender ➤ September 29, 2016

95 Reasons Black Women Are Endangered

#BlackLivesMatter. But why are the lives of Black women killed by police all but erased from the national conversation? 95 reasons we must #SayHerName.

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Church ➤ January 23, 2017

When Blackface Enters the Pulpit: Vicki Yohe, Paula White, & the Problem with the ‘Black Pass’

What happens when we center whiteness in Black sacred spaces? On Vicki Yohe, Paula White, and the art of blackface in the pulpit.

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Losing It: What Pushes a Mother Away from God?

A candid essay by a wife and mother on how she transitioned from faith in God to a confident, unapologetic agnostic Black woman.

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