Black women are often told we suffer from imposter syndrome, but that language misses the deeper wound. Through The Wiz, Black Girl Magic, and the burden of being endlessly useful, this essay names the fear that our humanity will be mistaken for fraudulence after a lifetime of being expected to perform godhood.
Read MoreThe Lindseys, Pinky Promise, & The Gathering Oasis Since the murmurings began, I’ve dreaded the reality that I’d be asked to address this situation again. Yet, here we are. In the last few weeks, Ayanna...
Read MoreGod hasn't given us a spirit of fear. So why am I terrified? Navigating faith, fear, and hope during the coronavirus/COVID-19 global pandemic.
Read MoreI’ll just come out and say it: life is absolutely frustrating right now. I know it is impolite to say such things. I know we are supposed to operate in positive vibes only and move...
Read MoreCoats, Coverings, & Birthing. John Gray has shared with us yet again more unsolicited advice on getting, marrying, and raising men. I share my thoughts on why women aren't obligated to do anyone's emotional labor.
Read MoreI remember the exact moment I knew I would not be coming back to church. When I reflect on that moment as a woman in her 40s, I am crystal clear on why.
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