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I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?
Gender & Power ► June 12, 2019

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?

I turned 31 on June 1 and found myself single and quite ready to mingle. Eight months after the end of a five-year relationship, I realized I was ready to date and love again. After...

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The Milk Is Never Free: The Value of a Woman’s Love
Gender & Power ► September 7, 2016

The Milk Is Never Free: The Value of a Woman’s Love

Why Buy the Cow when the Milk is Free? The age-old idiom in the perils of promiscuity. But, is milk ever free? The real value of a woman's love.

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What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?
Love &. Relationships ► July 28, 2016

What’s Love Got To Do With Marriage?

Marriage is not for the faint of heart and love won't be enough to keep the divorce papers away. Still think you want to be married? By Skylar Watson.

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6 Ways to Make the Most of Being Single
Love &. Relationships ► July 5, 2016

6 Ways to Make the Most of Being Single

It's a jungle out here. It's hard to tell these days if #TeamSingle is revered or reviled. 6 ways for thriving while surviving singlehood.

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My Halo Fell Off but my Crown is Still in Place
Deconstruction ► June 6, 2016

My Halo Fell Off but my Crown is Still in Place

How one woman found love and great sex after divorce before deciding to recommit to sexual abstinence while in a committed, monogamous relationship.

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Hoes Ain’t Won: The Fix
Embodied Faith ► May 23, 2016

Hoes Ain’t Won: The Fix

Side note: The language and situational dialogue of this post is cis-heteronormative. This means it’s primarily focused on what’s normal for cisgender (a person whose gender identity matches the one assigned at birth) and heterosexual...

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